Fatherhood Regained
Drug use leads to trouble for the addict and
chaos for the children just as recovery leads to
reliability for the parent and security for the
children. Rodney Mason came to Free at Last for
outpatient treatment in December 1998. He kept
visiting his kids who lived in Oakland with their
mother who was using drugs. "My kids weren't
being cared for and other kids gave them a hard
time. They'd been through a lot-evictions,
missing school, low self-esteem. I realized that
if my life is getting better then my kids lives
should be even better." With the help of Nadia
Bishop, a Free at Last board member and attorney
with the East Palo Alto Law Project at the time,
Rodney was able to gain custody of his children.
"Their world has completely changed. Now we have
a temporary apartment of our own. We spend most
of our time together." As a single parent Rodney
manages the daily routine of making sure his kids
are groomed and on time for school and doing what
they are supposed to do. "I stay actively
involved and visit their schools regularly. I'm
getting good feedback about them-no more acting
out. The twins are both good in sports and all
three are good in art." He's determined to give
his kids the best options. "I check all the
avenues-- connecting with every agency that can
help us. I want a stable foundation, a place to
live so we don't have to move from place to
place. I want them to have the same address and
phone number like I did as a kid."
Rodney knows that education is the key. "My
counselor told me if you're going to change,
education comes with change." Now he's a
part-time pre-treatment counselor at Free at
Last. But to get ahead he's completing the GED so
that he can go on to take the certification
course at San Mateo college to become a drug
counselor.
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